Reverse flow, ehiem pump are good. Models that trap CO2 are best, but not required. Reactors are the easy part.
Regulator is where the rubber meets the road. Carbon Doser is really good. M3 and Pinpoint are pretty good. Get a GOOD (did I say GOOD?) check valve because saltwater will rust up your expensive new regulator.
Natural media like ARM is easy to melt and has strontium, magnesium and other trace elements in it. It is phosphate free - don't listen to anybody tell you otherwise. You can get man-made media, but you will need to add dolomite to get a bit of magnesium and it takes pretty low PH to melt it - you won't get the other trace elements with the man made stuff. My recommendation is the ARM medium grade stuff - the large stuff is too hard to melt and the small clogs a bit, but is still better than the large.
The things are easy to tune mechanically, and you have to do it anyway. If you decide to use PH function on a controller, this is for you and not so much the reactor. I can set them and only check them like ever 5 or 6 months - they do need turned up as your stuff grows. I have never had a controller and have been running a CaRx nonstop since 1999 when I got my first Korallin (which I still have and the Ehiem pump is still running).
You will also have to figure out a way to feed it. Many have used maxijets with great success for years and years. Dosing pumps will work OK too if they will push enough. I am currently using T off of the main line for both of my tanks.